It doesn't take away from the conflict, it just helps me to keep my focus and priorities where they need to be while I am dealing with the conflict.
I had a Pastor tell me one time, the individual is always more important than the ministry. I think that is what I have to keep in mind. I have to be worried more about people, as individuals and where they are at in their walk, than I am with moving the ministry from here to there. I think I lose sight of that pretty often.